England bulldoze india 4-0: buttler’s 131 seals a 56-run win India's traffic-delayed team never recovered. Jos Buttler smashed 131 off 64 balls and Harry Brook stayed unbeaten on 95, their 233-run stand the highest second-wicket partnership in England's T20I history, as the hosts posted 257/3 and won by 56 runs at Southampton. It completed a 4-0 sweep — India's worst-ever T20I series defeat — and pushed England to No.1 in the ICC rankings, past defending champions India. Shreyas Iyer, now 0 for 7 as captain in the toss department, admitted his side were "outplayed and outfielded" through the tour.
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A fight over a mall food bill revealed everything My boyfriend and I went to a mall with friends. When the bill came, he made a joke about always paying for me. I felt humiliated because I regularly paid too. We started arguing in front of everyone. Later, we realised the fight wasn't about money. I felt unappreciated, while he felt financial pressure he had never discussed. Sometimes the smallest bill carries months of hidden frustration.
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My crush replied to a three-year-old instagram story highlight I had followed her since college but never had the courage to message. One night, while checking her profile, I accidentally reacted to an old story highlight from three years ago. I wanted to throw my phone away. A few minutes later, she replied, "Deep research going on?" I apologised, but she kept teasing me. That embarrassing accident became a two-hour conversation. We have now gone on four dates. Sometimes confidence doesn't start a love story; sometimes a careless thumb does.
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My date asked if i could leave so she could finish dinner alone This one still confuses me. We met for dinner, talked for about an hour and everything seemed okay. Not amazing, not terrible. Then she looked at me and said: “I actually really like this restaurant and I think I’d enjoy the rest of my meal more alone.” I respected it and left. Later she texted saying I was a nice guy but the pasta deserved her full attention. Honestly, fair enough.
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She invited me over and her parents interviewed me for an hour We had been talking for about two weeks. She invited me to her place for dinner and said it would be “super casual.” I arrive. Her parents are there. Her older brother is there. Everyone is dressed nicely. Her dad asks what my long-term career plans are before I even sit down. Her mom asks if I can cook. Her brother asks about my previous relationships. I looked at my date for help and she just smiled. I thought I was coming over for pasta. Apparently I had reached the...
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My colleague left at 6 pm during a crisis and i respected him for it We had a major issue at work last week and everyone was expected to stay late. One colleague packed his bag at 6 and said he had promised his daughter he would attend her school performance. A few people looked annoyed and someone even made a sarcastic comment about priorities. He simply said, "She will remember whether I was there. This office won't remember this crisis next month." Then he left. I've been thinking about that line ever since. I've cancelled birthdays, dinners and family plans for work emergencies that...
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2025 — ₹12 crore loss, properties sold, and my brother still stood beside me Our family had built wealth over two generations. I managed investments and slowly increased leverage across mid caps, pledged shares and derivatives. For a long time, rising markets hid how fragile everything had become. When the cycle reversed, the total damage crossed ₹12 crore. We sold commercial property, land and a holiday home. Several relatives blamed me openly, and they were justified. My elder brother had every reason to hate me, yet he stood beside me during creditor meetings. He told me support did not mean forgiveness; it meant the...
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My crush asked me to help her impress another guy I liked a girl in my college group for almost a year but never confessed. She trusted me deeply and often asked for advice. One day, she told me she liked someone and wanted my help starting a conversation with him on Instagram. I spent an entire evening helping my crush write messages to another guy. They eventually dated. I pretended to be happy. That experience taught me that being emotionally close to someone does not automatically mean they see you romantically.
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I let my mother think i needed her After I moved out, my mother constantly worried I couldn't manage alone. Whenever she visited, she brought food and reorganized everything. At first it annoyed me. Then I realized how happy it made her to feel needed. So I started asking for recipes I already knew, pretending I couldn't fold certain clothes properly, and calling about basic household questions. Over time she became more comfortable with my independence and I stopped. She thinks she taught me adulthood. In some ways, maybe she did.
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My date called her ex to settle an argument we were having We were talking about whether a certain movie was overrated. Nothing serious. She disagreed with me, pulled out her phone, and said, “I know who can settle this.” Then she called her ex-boyfriend. On speaker. At 10:30 at night. He answered and immediately said, “What now?” That told me everything I needed to know 😭 They argued for five minutes while I sat there eating fries. Somehow I became the third wheel on my own date.
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2017 — my wife called my best friend after finding a suicide note I had lost around ₹1 crore and believed my family would be better without me. During a severe crisis, I wrote a note but did not act immediately. My wife found it and called my best friend, who came over and stayed with us while professional help was arranged. The financial problems took years to address. I am grateful that the note became a warning sign rather than a final message.
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I used my husband’s old password to read his private journal My husband once kept notes on an old laptop. I knew a password he commonly used and opened them. I expected random work stuff. Instead, I found journal entries about his anxiety, fears about becoming a father, and worries that he wasn't enough for me. I closed it and never read again. But I can't unread what I saw. Since then, I've become more careful about how I joke about his insecurities. He thinks I simply became more understanding with age. The truth is I violated his privacy and learned...
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I secretly learned to cook because my wife stopped eating properly My wife thinks I suddenly became interested in cooking after watching random videos online. The truth is, I started because I noticed she had been skipping dinner whenever work got stressful. She would come home, say she wasn't hungry, and then fall asleep with her laptop still open. I didn't know how to talk to her without making her feel like I was monitoring her, so I started learning the dishes she usually orders. For the last three months, I've been pretending I just “felt like cooking.” She still doesn't...
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2018 — i survived a crisis after losing ₹5.2 crore Years of successful trading made me reckless. A combination of concentrated stock positions, leverage and F&O losses pushed the damage above ₹5.2 crore. I reached a severe mental-health crisis and made an attempt to harm myself. I survived, received treatment and eventually faced my family. Several assets were sold and relationships took years to repair, but surviving gave me the chance to take responsibility.
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My colleague keeps asking my salary and i’m running out of polite answers There's a guy in my office who joined around four months ago. Nice enough person, but he has absolutely no concept of boundaries. The first week he asked my salary. I laughed and changed the topic. A few days later he asked again, this time saying, “Approx hi bata do.” Then he started guessing. “80k se upar?” “1 lakh?” “CTC kitna hai?” Last week I bought a new phone and he immediately said, “Acha, matlab salary achi hai.” Today during lunch he asked how much money I have invested. Not...
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I was attracted to my husband’s friend before i met my husband My husband believes the first person I noticed in his friend group was him. It wasn't. I initially thought his best friend was attractive and even asked someone if he was single. Then I actually spoke to my future husband and everything changed. I never dated or flirted with the friend, so nothing happened. But after 10 years of hearing my husband tell people, "She only had eyes for me," I no longer have the courage to correct the historical record.
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2020 — i lost ₹35 lakh while my restaurant was already struggling Lockdown had badly affected my restaurant business. Instead of protecting the remaining cash, I started trading because markets seemed like the only place where money was moving. Early profits gave me hope, and I began using business working capital for options. Within months, I had lost around ₹35 lakh. The restaurant later closed because I no longer had enough cash to restart properly. For a long time, I blamed the pandemic, but deep down I knew the business might have survived if I had not gambled away its remaining oxygen.
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24f | probably too young for this sub, but here anyway I'm 24 and yes, I know I have time. Please don't make that the entire comment section. I'm currently doing my master's in Bangalore and working part-time. I'm originally from Kerala, Christian, 5'2”, and speak Malayalam, English and questionable Hindi. I'm not looking to get married next year. I'm looking for a genuine relationship that could become serious naturally. I love live music, dogs, baking, fantasy novels and spontaneous plans that I complain about before eventually enjoying. I would prefer someone between 24 and 28. Students are fine. Working professionals...
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2009 — my father lost our house down-payment in the market crash My parents had saved for years to buy a small house. My father invested a large portion of the down-payment in equities because he believed he could increase it before the purchase. Then the market environment turned brutal and panic took over. He sold several positions near the worst possible time. We continued living in a rented house for another seven years. I was young, but I remember my mother never blaming him in front of us. Years later she told me they had nearly separated because of the secrecy...
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Is it normal for friends to expect airport pickup at 3 am just because you own a car? One of my close friends called me last week and casually asked if I was free on Saturday night. I said probably, thinking he wanted to go out somewhere. Then he said, “Perfect bhai, meri flight 2:40 AM land hogi. Pick kar lena.” For context, the airport is around 55 km from my house. I laughed because I genuinely thought he was joking. He wasn't. I asked why he wasn't just taking a cab and he said airport cabs are expensive, plus “apni gaadi me comfortable rahega.” Apni gaadi. My...
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My manager followed me for 3 km after office and i had no idea why I left my office in Bengaluru around 9:30 PM and noticed my manager's car behind my scooter at almost every turn. For a moment I genuinely thought something was wrong or maybe I had messed up badly at work. When I stopped near a signal, he rolled down his window and said my scooter's rear light wasn't working, so he was following me until I reached a better-lit main road. Never expected that from someone I barely speak to outside meetings.
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2015 — i sold my mother’s gold without telling her This is still the worst thing I have done. I had lost around ₹8 lakh trading futures and owed money to two people. My mother had given me access to family jewellery for a bank locker issue, and in desperation I used part of it to raise money. I told myself I would replace everything after one successful trade. That successful trade never came. My mother discovered the truth months later when she needed the jewellery for my cousin's wedding. My father helped repay the remaining debt, but my mother...
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My girlfriend says ordering food is not a “real hobby” and now we have a stupid argument This is such a small thing but somehow it turned into a two-day debate. My girlfriend asked what I wanted to do over the weekend. I said I wanted to stay home, order something good and watch a movie. She said, “That's all you ever want to do.” Not exactly true, but okay. Then she said I need a real hobby because “ordering food and watching Netflix isn't a personality.” Ouch. 😂 I asked what counts as a real hobby. She said painting, trekking, dancing, reading, sports, photography etc. Now...
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She met someone else in the college garden My girlfriend and I had a favourite corner in the college garden where we spent almost every lunch break. During our final year, she became distant and started saying she needed space because of placements. One afternoon, a friend sent me a photo. She was sitting in our usual garden spot with another guy, and they looked far too comfortable. I went there immediately and created a scene without listening to either of them. Later, I found out he was her cousin visiting the campus for an event. She forgave...
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31f | not interested in being someone’s “backup plan” I've had enough conversations where someone is simultaneously talking to seven people and pretending each connection is special. That style of dating isn't for me. I'm 31, based in Mumbai, working in advertising. I'm independent, social and generally happy with my life. I'm 5'7”, non-vegetarian, non-smoker and drink occasionally. I enjoy live music, weekend travel, strength training and trying restaurants I probably saw online. I'm looking for a man around 29-35 who actually has space in his life for a relationship. I don't expect exclusivity after two messages. But if...
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I rejected a boy because my friends laughed at him When I was 16, a quiet boy from my class told me he liked me. I actually liked him too. But my friends found out and started laughing because he was awkward and not considered attractive. The next day, when he asked if we could talk, I acted disgusted and told him to leave me alone. His face changed instantly. He never bothered me again. We're both in our 30s now, married to other people, and I randomly saw his profile online last month. I don't want him back and...
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2024 — i lost ₹68 lakh in adani-related trades because volatility looked easy I watched huge daily moves and thought volatility meant easy opportunity. I traded both directions, sometimes changing my view multiple times in one session. The result was a chain of bad entries, expensive options and emotional decisions. My total loss reached ₹68 lakh. A friend who had warned me refused to lend me recovery capital, and I ended our friendship in anger. Months later, I called him and apologized because his refusal probably saved me from losing even more.
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29f | looking for a teammate, not someone to complete me The phrase “better half” has always bothered me slightly. I would prefer two complete people choosing to build something together. I'm 29, based in Noida, working as an architect. Originally from Uttarakhand. I'm 5'6”, Hindu, non-vegetarian and an occasional drinker. I'm deeply attached to mountains, old buildings, dogs and making lists for things that do not require lists. My career is important to me and I plan to continue working after marriage. This is non-negotiable. I'm open to men between 28 and 34. I don't care much about caste. I...
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My husband’s snoring doesn’t bother me anymore For years, my husband's snoring drove me insane. I pushed him, woke him, bought earplugs, and occasionally slept elsewhere. Then he spent two weeks in hospital after surgery. The first night he returned home, I woke up to his loud snoring and started crying from relief. I still complain about it because some habits are part of marriage, but secretly the sound now tells me he is home and breathing beside me.
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2017 — my first f&o loss was ₹5.4 lakh I was a 27-year-old girl working in IT when a colleague introduced me to Nifty options. My first few trades were profitable, and within weeks I started believing my salary job was holding me back. I took personal loans and increased my position size. One expiry day wiped out ₹5.4 lakh. I hid it from my parents for three months. My father finally found the loan messages on my phone. Instead of asking why I lost money, he asked why I had been crying alone every night. He helped me...
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I pretended to need help so my grandfather would feel useful After my grandfather retired, he became quiet and withdrawn. He had spent his whole life fixing things, organizing people, and solving problems. Suddenly everyone kept telling him to rest. So I started bringing him things that weren't really broken. A loose watch strap, a chair I could fix myself, paperwork I already understood. He would complain dramatically and then spend hours helping me. He died last year. My family still jokes that I was helpless around him. I wasn't. I just liked watching him become himself again.
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32m | back in india and wondering where adults meet people I returned to India eight months ago after working in Singapore for five years. I'm 32, currently based in Gurgaon, working in supply chain. Punjabi, 6'1”, non-vegetarian, social drinker and non-smoker. Most of my old friends are married or busy with children, so my social circle has become surprisingly small. I enjoy tennis, cooking, road trips and discovering restaurants that don't require standing in a two-hour queue. I'm looking for someone between 27 and 33. I'm serious about marriage eventually but don't have a six-month deadline. I value independence and...
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2010 — i lost ₹80,000 and considered running away from home I was 20 and ₹80,000 felt impossible to repay. Most of it belonged to my father, who thought I was using it for course fees. I packed a bag and planned to leave because I was too ashamed to confess. My younger brother saw the bag and forced me to explain. He called our father. I received the worst scolding of my life, but I also stayed home and eventually repaid the money.
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I pretended not to see my mother counting money As a child, I once saw my mother sitting on the bed counting small notes and coins before a school trip. I realized she didn't have enough money for the fee. When she noticed me, I immediately pretended I had entered the room looking for something else. The next morning she gave me the full amount and told me to enjoy myself. I later learned she had borrowed it from a neighbor. I'm financially comfortable now, but I still struggle to spend money on vacations without guilt. Part of me...
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2025 — after a ₹6 crore loss, i had a suicide attempt and woke up to my father beside me I had hidden leveraged trading losses for years. By the time loans, interest and forced exits were counted, the damage was around ₹6 crore. I believed I had destroyed my family's future and entered a severe mental-health crisis. I made an attempt to harm myself and survived after emergency intervention. When I regained awareness, my retired father was sitting beside me. He did not ask about the money. Later, with professional support and family involvement, we began dealing with creditors and selling assets. The debt is still real, but I...
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2020 — i turned ₹1 lakh into ₹12 lakh and then lost ₹17 lakh During lockdown, I started trading because I had too much free time. Somehow, almost every trade worked in the beginning. My ₹1 lakh account crossed ₹12 lakh, and I started posting profit screenshots in a WhatsApp group. Friends began asking me for tips, and I loved the attention more than the money. I thought I had discovered a talent nobody around me understood. Then I had one bad week in Bank Nifty options. Instead of accepting the loss, I added ₹5 lakh from savings and kept increasing quantities. By the...
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I pretended my little brother’s imaginary friend was real My younger brother had an imaginary friend after we moved to a new city. Our parents worried and kept telling him the friend wasn't real. I did the opposite. I left an extra space at the table, asked what the imaginary friend thought, and occasionally blamed missing snacks on him. My brother eventually made real friends and forgot the imaginary one. He doesn't remember much of that period now. I do. He was lonely, and I think part of me was trying to make sure even his imaginary friend felt...
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2015 — my father sold his car after my ₹14 lakh debt I borrowed money to trade stock futures and kept losses hidden. When lenders started calling home, the truth came out. My father had recently bought his first new car after decades of using second-hand vehicles. He sold that car and returned to an old scooter to clear part of my debt. I remember watching him ride to work in the rain and feeling sick with guilt. I repaid him eventually, but I could never return the joy he had when he first brought that car home.
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2013 — my friend died and i inherited guilt over a stock tip A close friend invested around ₹4 lakh after I strongly recommended a small-cap stock. The investment later performed terribly, and we argued because he believed I had hidden risks from him. We stopped speaking for months. He later died from an unrelated illness before we properly reconciled. The financial loss was not enormous compared with other stories, but I still carry guilt that our last phase of friendship was damaged by a stock recommendation.
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2014 — my sister saved me from a ₹7 lakh debt spiral I lost ₹7 lakh trading mid-cap stocks with borrowed money. Every morning I woke up thinking one good trade would fix everything. Every evening the hole was deeper. My younger sister discovered the truth when a lender called while I was in the shower. She used part of her savings to clear the highest-interest debt, but only after making me hand over control of my finances for six months.
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I gave away a gift my daughter saved for months to buy My teenage daughter bought me an expensive scarf after saving her pocket money. I loved the gesture but rarely wore scarves. A year later, I donated it during a house cleanout without thinking. She noticed months afterward and asked where it was. I lied and said it was packed safely somewhere. She is 29 now, and I still don't have that scarf. Every few years I search online hoping to find the exact same one. I underestimated how much a gift can mean because I focused on the object instead...
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