I've taken long breaks from dating because I genuinely enjoy my own company and online dating often leaves me more tired than hopeful.

Still, I don't want cynicism to make decisions for me.

I'm 34, based in Bangalore, working in publishing. I'm 5'6”, Hindu, non-vegetarian and a social drinker.

I love literature, solo travel, independent cinema, dogs and slow Sunday mornings. I'm financially independent and have no expectation that a partner should “take care” of me.

I'm looking for someone roughly 31-39 who is emotionally available, intellectually curious and genuinely interested in building a partnership.

I don't care about flashy achievements. I care about consistency, kindness and whether we can be honest without making honesty feel dangerous.

If any of this resonates, send a proper introduction. I promise to do the same.