My aunt lost her husband several years ago and became extremely withdrawn afterward. Recently, at 59, she joined a beginner dance class with a friend.
I thought everyone would be happy that she was finally doing something social. Instead, some relatives started making comments about her age and asking why she needs to dance now. One person even said she should behave "according to her situation." I cannot understand why people expect widowed women to stop enjoying life permanently.
Has anyone helped an older widowed relative rebuild confidence despite this kind of family judgement?