After a week of genuinely good conversations, we finally discussed hobbies. She loved clubbing every weekend and asked what I usually drank.
I told her I don't drink alcohol and usually prefer late-night drives or cafés instead. She replied, "I don't think our lifestyles match." Ten minutes later the conversation disappeared because she'd unmatched.
For a while I wondered if I should've lied just to get a first date. Then I realized that would've only delayed the inevitable. Compatibility matters more than getting another match.