I found out my date had already researched my entire family

Second date was going really well until she casually asked, “Does your sister still live in Chicago?”

I never told her I had a sister.

I just stared at her.

She immediately realized what happened and said, “Oh, I think you mentioned it before.”

I definitely did not.

Later she admitted she found my Instagram, then my mom's Facebook, then somehow my sister's profile.

We had known each other for nine days.

I respect research, but this felt like I was being prepared for a documentary 😭